No. Firstly because in any friendship and relationship, both people need their own privacy. Also for my best friends, I don't need to know their every thought. If they wanted me to know, they'd tell me when they felt comfortable doing so. And sort of the same for a romantic partner except, some life experiences I don't need know the particulars about. I don't need to know how many people they've had sex with, hooked up with, etc. But it's not just on a sexual basis. Some things are better left in the past in order for the relationship in the now to work better. What I would like to know, however, would be things pertaining to the now, but that's where asking and effectively communicating with your romantic partner comes in.
Eh, 67-70ish is perfect weather for me. Not too hot, not too cold. But any lower than that and I'm cold. Also depends on if there's wind too, but that wasn't part of the question, haha
No. If the teenager is mentally healthy, they are perfectly aware of right and wrong and are perfectly aware of their (shitty) decision and need to be held responsible of their own actions. Teens will never learn with slaps on the wrist and their parents taking the sharp end of the sword for their shitty behavior.
Oh man. I have no damn idea. Maybe 10-11 years? But not with the same username. This is, I think, my third username in those 10-11 years.
Life Changes my LJ has seen
- Moved here the beginning of my freshman year. Which was around when I got my first account here, lildoggiesam.
- That account was later abandoned and deleted (due to inactivity) due to a few girls I used to be friends with stalking my shit, showing it to the school principle and nearly getting me expelled for no damn reason.
- Made a new acct at some point, which was y0shi_x, which was also later abandoned and ultimately deleted due to inactivity because a girl I used to be friends with (a different one) stalked my shit and tried using it against me to make me and my ex break up.
- Ultimately we did break up, thank goodness, but it wasn't because of her stalking my shit. It was because of him being a fucking idiot. I probably should have broken up with him much sooner but whatever.
- Oh, and I dated a guy who was about 8-10 years older than me, when I was eighteen. He was divorced, attending NA and AA and severely into tattoos and piercings. He was about two inches shorter than me, a bit chubby, "gothic" one might say. We only "dated" for about three weeks. Reason that's quoted is he never really asked me to be his girlfriend. He broke up with me over a text message because I wouldn't have sex with him on a small, shitty couch in his mother's cluttered basement & no condom. I didn't have sex with him, obviously, but I shouldn't even have ever met him. Fucking loser. But whatever.
- My doggie Sammy went to the big doggie house in the sky on January eighth of 2008.
- I graduated high school.
- And college with my Associates in Communication.
- Lost another "best friend" that I had throughout high school till about two years ago. She's gotten rather dependent on her boyfriend, who I think controls her and she has become a bit selfish. I hate how she straight up avoids conflict. Not all conflict is bad. And I hate how she would let her boyfriend talk to me like a piece of shit and she'd brush it off like "it's drama between you and him and I don't want it." Man, fuck you bitch. What the fuck kinda person does that? We were friends for SEVEN YEARS, and you're telling me to fuck off for a douche bag you've only known for a tiny fraction of that? Fuck you, you stupid bitch. Really. That's god damn fucking shallow. I'd have expected better from you. Fuck. So basically I told her I didn't feel comfortable being her friend if she was still going to be with this psycho douche and that if she was going to let him disrespect her and me like that and brush it off like it's nothing, than our friendship was over.
And the best change out of them all?
I met this pretty amazing guy late April of 2009. We met May 3rd and he asked me to be his girlfriend May 5th & we've been together since. He's pretty amazing and I love him so much. <3
Life Changes my LJ has seen
- Moved here the beginning of my freshman year. Which was around when I got my first account here, lildoggiesam.
- That account was later abandoned and deleted (due to inactivity) due to a few girls I used to be friends with stalking my shit, showing it to the school principle and nearly getting me expelled for no damn reason.
- Made a new acct at some point, which was y0shi_x, which was also later abandoned and ultimately deleted due to inactivity because a girl I used to be friends with (a different one) stalked my shit and tried using it against me to make me and my ex break up.
- Ultimately we did break up, thank goodness, but it wasn't because of her stalking my shit. It was because of him being a fucking idiot. I probably should have broken up with him much sooner but whatever.
- Oh, and I dated a guy who was about 8-10 years older than me, when I was eighteen. He was divorced, attending NA and AA and severely into tattoos and piercings. He was about two inches shorter than me, a bit chubby, "gothic" one might say. We only "dated" for about three weeks. Reason that's quoted is he never really asked me to be his girlfriend. He broke up with me over a text message because I wouldn't have sex with him on a small, shitty couch in his mother's cluttered basement & no condom. I didn't have sex with him, obviously, but I shouldn't even have ever met him. Fucking loser. But whatever.
- My doggie Sammy went to the big doggie house in the sky on January eighth of 2008.
- I graduated high school.
- And college with my Associates in Communication.
- Lost another "best friend" that I had throughout high school till about two years ago. She's gotten rather dependent on her boyfriend, who I think controls her and she has become a bit selfish. I hate how she straight up avoids conflict. Not all conflict is bad. And I hate how she would let her boyfriend talk to me like a piece of shit and she'd brush it off like "it's drama between you and him and I don't want it." Man, fuck you bitch. What the fuck kinda person does that? We were friends for SEVEN YEARS, and you're telling me to fuck off for a douche bag you've only known for a tiny fraction of that? Fuck you, you stupid bitch. Really. That's god damn fucking shallow. I'd have expected better from you. Fuck. So basically I told her I didn't feel comfortable being her friend if she was still going to be with this psycho douche and that if she was going to let him disrespect her and me like that and brush it off like it's nothing, than our friendship was over.
And the best change out of them all?
I met this pretty amazing guy late April of 2009. We met May 3rd and he asked me to be his girlfriend May 5th & we've been together since. He's pretty amazing and I love him so much. <3
- Mood:
sleepy
I personally think it's just as important as attraction to their personality. They can have an amazing personality, but if you don't like looking at them, what's the attraction in that? It sounds shallow but one thing that would influence me dating or not dating a person is the physical attraction.
Yes I think they should, because it's better than having a parent who won't remotely touch on the subject and it's better than learning from experience.
Previously y0shi_x. Sorry, I don't know how to do that code that makes it come up as a link.
If you wish to be added, please comment with the following:
1) Tell me where/how you found me. I ask this because I don't like stalkers.
2) If I add you, be respectful of me, as well as of yourself. IE: If you type like an uneducated child, I probably won't even consider adding you.
Keep in mind that I've every right not to add you. I don't want to be on someone's friend's list to just make it look longer. If we lack communication, I'll probably delete you (if I don't know you.)
If you wish to be added, please comment with the following:
1) Tell me where/how you found me. I ask this because I don't like stalkers.
2) If I add you, be respectful of me, as well as of yourself. IE: If you type like an uneducated child, I probably won't even consider adding you.
Keep in mind that I've every right not to add you. I don't want to be on someone's friend's list to just make it look longer. If we lack communication, I'll probably delete you (if I don't know you.)
- Mood:
discontent